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Minggu, Mei 29, 2011

"Just Say It Forward," He Says

I guess “Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus” means something. Though honestly I haven’t read the book yet, today I deeply deeply realized that men and women are two different creatures.

Today, me and my longtime boyfriend went to see a movie. On our way home, I kinda forgot how it started; I told him that sometimes women don’t say directly what they really feel to their lovers. And shockingly, he got upset about me saying those things. He simply said that men are not God so they won’t know what women are thinking unless they say it directly to them. My boyfriend got really frustrated, fearing that I might hide my true feeling and my true desire as I wish he could guess it correctly without me saying that to him.

He asked me to promise that I won’t do those things. And I couldn’t. Although I want to say frankly to him about my feeling or what I want to every time, I’m a woman after all. Then, gently I explained to him that sometimes, women do such kind of things because it will be a very very special thing when their beaus know what women want without us telling them.

I truly believe that our boyfriends will do their best to fulfill our want but sometimes women hope their couples understand what we want without us telling them so. It makes us fell understood and it makes moments when our lovers do as we hope very very special. So guys, do me a favor will you? Please understand that we’re not that simple.
thank-you

2 komentar:

  1. that's rite mb yun...
    I've ever read that book once. It simply shows there's a big difference between men and women or boy and girls. and one I got from it that Men's mind is almost full of "Sex and sex"... women's are otherwise, more than it, of course :D hahaha

    nice blog anyway. I like it ^_^

    BalasHapus
  2. Thank you Chnul for you comment :)
    It's hard to explain it to them, isn't it? :P

    Do you also have blog? I want to read yours if you do <3

    BalasHapus